7/10/2017 Weekly Newsletter: Boundaries with “Uncle Bob,” 2-year certification training, and new Learning Center Membership Give-Aways!

When you were growing up, what happened when someone went beyond the appropriate? Whether it was your younger sister throwing things at you or your crazy Uncle Bob dropping by and not leaving for several weeks, we all have stories about boundaries that weren’t respected.

Most of us didn’t experience healthy boundaries. A healthy boundary is one in which everyone’s needs are respected. (That’s different than everyone getting what they want…) Sometimes not directly answering the question can work, but other times it needs a little more definition and clarity to make sure the message is coming across in a way that still respects the other person.

On Friday’s podcast last week, Christy Farr and I explored boundaries with the metaphorical “Uncle Bob” and what that can look and feel like in real life within the family. “Uncle Bob” represents those people in your life who you want or need to have a relationship with, but it just isn’t working for one reason or another. Christy walks us through stages of boundaries to stay in connection. Worth the listen.

Guest blogger Angelle Gremillion continues our conversation about boundaries with “Know Your Neighbor,” a story about a challenging neighbor and a definitely needed boundary. It’s the story I think we can all relate to of finding friends where we live and how we need to find someone whose crazy matches ours!

From the archives, “Our Needs VS Their Needs” talks more about boundaries in parenting our kids and how we can’t forget about our needs in the process of parenting or it’s not going to feel good to anyone.

And from the archives also, “The Case Against Breastfeeding” was written in response to an article written by a mother who blamed society for requiring her to breastfeed. I think it’s an excellent way to continue the conversation of taking personal responsibility in whatever decisions we make in parenting and finding our own boundaries so that we can respect and maintain our relationship with our children.

Have you checked out our newLearning Center? We’ll be giving away memberships on our tour on Thursday, so be sure to register for our TOUR below for your chance towin a whole year!


Podcast Episode 10: Boundaries (part 2)

Episode 10 is up! Christy Farr, The Unruly Woman, joins Rebecca Thompson Hitt of The Consciously Parenting Project to talk more about “Uncle Bob” and how to stay in relationship with him while still maintaining your own boundaries so it feels good to you and your family in the process.

Blog Recap:

Knowing Your Neighbor

Guest blogger Angelle Gremillion writes about how listening to your gut when faced with a challenging social situation is hard. We don’t want to believe bad things are happening in the moment. However, when presented with someone that shows you unkindness or frightening opposition, listen to that feeling. Believe yourself. Click to read.


The Case Against Breastfeeding

From the Consciously Parenting achives:

America seems full of finger-pointing and, in general, we like to blame someone else for our problems. People sued McDonald’s when their coffee was too hot and won. It wasn’t their fault that the coffee was hot, after all, and they burned themselves. If the problem exists outside of ourselves, then it really isn’t about us. We don’t need to make a change. But if we can recognize that there is probably a small part that is our responsibility, that means that we can make it different. Click to read



Needs: Ours vs Theirs? Is there a better way?

From the Consciously Parenting archives: “I’m really struggling with nursing my 2 year old,” the mother confided. “I can’t say this to very many people because most people just say that I should wean. But that doesn’t feel right to me, either. So I nurse her even though I really don’t feel like it and I resent her for it. I want to meet Sarah’s needs and I want to be the best parent I can for my daughter, but this isn’t working for me.” Click to read.

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Be sure to check out our NEW Learning Center and Community. We’re having a sale on our Gold level memberships during the month of July (coupon code SUMMER2017), but you can also join for free! Check it out here.

Come check out our new learning center on Thursday, July 13 at 1pm eastern for our free tour! (Please note the change of day!) It will last 20-30 minutes and will be recorded. Click here to register!

Join us on the call to learn how to win a free one-year membership! Can’t join us live? Sign up anyway and we’ll send you the recording!

Consciously Parenting 2-Year Training Program and Certification

Have you wanted to go deeper into the Consciously Parenting paradigm with your own family? Have you wanted to support others? Are you a professional who supports parents in any capacity? I’m looking for people who want to learn to apply my work to their own families, communities, or practices. This is an experiential training that will be conducted virtually.

Click for more information and hit reply to this email to schedule a time with me to see if it feels like a good fit for you and your needs!

Want to learn more about our 2 year training program? Join us tomorrow, Tuesday, July 11 at 7pm eastern (NY time) for an informational discussion, ask your questions and see if this training is right for you. Yes, we will record this, so sign up even if you can’t attend live. Register here to join.

Consciously Parenting Family Cruise Retreat

Open to all families, we’re sailing out of Tampa, FL on Thursday, January 25, 2018 for a 4-night cruise to Cozumel, Mexico. Click to learn more!

Have questions? Want to hear more? Watch the recording of our informational call and learn all about our January 2018 Consciously Parenting Cruise Retreat!

If you’re planning to join us, please pay your $25 deposit to Rose Forbes to hold our space on the ship and to lock in current prices by Friday, July 14! You can still join us after that, but prices may be different as we’re locked in with this group rate now.


Rebecca Thompson Hitt

Rebecca is the founder of The Consciously Parenting Project, LLC, and author of 3 books (Consciously Parenting: What it really Takes to Raise Emotionally Healthy Families, Creating Connection: Essential Tools for Growing Families through Conception, Birth and Beyond, and Nurturing Connection: What Parents Need to Know about Emotional Expression and Bonding), numerous classes and recordings, and the former co-host of a radio show, True North Parents.

Rebecca Thompson Hitt has 171 posts and counting. See all posts by Rebecca Thompson Hitt

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